✨Shimmers✨

Another year , another new year resolution? I don't make new year resolutions so that's not me. Bit hey did u make a resolution and follow it through? Or maybe u made a vision board and something came true from it. I hope you achieved something good nonetheless.  The year has been as surprising as always. And grief has been a major part of this year for everyone. A lot of major people have died. But it's just made me realise how much more we should appreciate the things and people in our lives, just for who they are while they're alive. I've not been a regular writer and  I'm writting a recap of everything this year just to appreciate everything a little more . (I'll try mentioning all names, but if I don't please know that I still appreciate your existence) Jan - So new year new me started with chopping my hair short. Got a wolf cut. I got the responsibility of being a leader at Paradyes. This led to me meeting a hugeee bunch of people.  Ha...

Yes. I said it. I do not mean it on the "pyaar dosti hai", or every great love begins with a friendship sense. I mean it in the simplest of words that Friendship=Love. Everyone is chasing after love in movies, books and everywhere in life. But what about the love we already have? Why is the love of a friendship not as sought after? Why do we take it for granted? Platonic Love is also one of the purest forms of love. A person you meet has the choice whether or not to be your friend. They get to know you slowly and accept you as part of their lives, as a friend with all your quirks. They're not related to you by blood, so they don't need to do that. But they still choose to stay with you and love you. Shouldn't that hold a ton of importance in our life? A true friend, a best friend will love you through thick and thin. And honestly you don't even need to meet such people everyday or at all to know that they love you. I mean you can also find the b...

Last day of the year and I'm here reminiscing. Weird year. Made some new friends that felt like family. Lost touch with some more friends But hey the one's who are meant to stay have always stayed. Took decisions I wasn't sure of, But learnt to be responsible and confident with my own choices. Learnt to connect to many people Do what makes you happy, people are going to judge you anyways. Just saying this & also doing it are 2 different things. I have learnt that. It takes immense courage to do it & a lot more strength to stand by what you choose to do for yourself and be happy about it. I've been skeptical of everything I do, but I'm trying not to be. If it makes you happy please just do it. Whether people like it or not, whether you are appreciated or not. It's alright. There's a lot of grey area to everything in life & yes reality has finally hit me, not everything is entirely black/white. Sometimes you have to just look closely to...

 What's the best version of you? If you were to define your best self , what would it look like. Your best dream self that hs everything that you've dreamt of, think about it a little. Take a pause and just think. Now what's keeping you from it ? Why aren't you that version now? The answer is simple. Your fears. The only thing keeping you away from the best you, are your fears.  And if there's anyone who disagrees to this, you are probably in denial, fearing to face your reality.  Some fears are very reasonably while some very abstract.  A little story time. Recently, there's been these accidents I've been seeing happening around me. Very close calls for my own self as well. Makes me scared at sudden noises lately . It's reasonable because it's stemming from things I'm experiencing .But does that mean I'm to dwell on it all my life? No . I have to put in some effort , and slowly get over it.  We shouldn't be bound by our surro...

So what's an end huh  You're wondering I'm sure. I've surprised myself as well here. So we'll both figure it out as we read ahead.The underlying thought here is what is the end? This blog started with a thing in church. It was asked, when you look at the ocean , you see the horizon. Is the horizon actually the end? The answer is obviously no . Just because you can't see ahead of the horizon doesn't mean that it's the end. It used to be believed that the earth is flat bcoz of a similar theory but we all know that the earth is a sphere.  If I say that God exists and you say show  me... I can apply the same concept just bcoz you don't see Him doesn't mean He doesn't exist. Furthermore this is a matter of faith so I won't push on it. But, if you wish to discuss it I'm more than happy to do it just text me . So now it's proven that the horizon is not the end of the earth and we all can surely agree to that unless there'...

Hello to everyone reading.      It's 2023 . "New year New me," is what people say. New year's resolutions are taken. But does all of this happen so quickly? As soon as the clock ticks to the new year? The answer is obviously no. Change is a slow and steady process. So it won't occur overnight.       A person who wants to change from his old ways doesn't just wake up the way he wishes to be. One has to work for their desired change to be seen. You practice the change in yourself every single day , until the change becomes who you are. Change is a very essential part of our lives. We as human's cannot resist change because it's the rule of nature to change. Survival of the fittest given by Charles Darwin on his theory of natural selection explains it all.  So change is inevitable. It's the only thing that is constant everywhere. Every single day of our lives , every moment we're changing, evolving , learning something new and become b...

He is handsome , smart and cute .  He's such an interesting dude.  But he has his emotional side too.     He has his fears and insecurities.  He has his breakdowns too.  Ohh yess he does!!  Because he is a human too.  It's just that his feelings are suppressed by this brutually demanding world.      He has a heart that feels , he has his flaws  And stands strong throughout.  But even he feels he'd have someone who'd love his dark side too . The side of him that nobody knows.  He wants someone to understand and know how he feels.  He wants someone who'll grab his hand in tough times  and say we can make it through.       He craves for love and affection;  for someone who'll love him whole. Someone who loves not his face or fame  but his flaws vulnerabilities  And most importantly his soul too. He might just fail to express always, The amount of love he has for you....

So what are boundaries?                    They're basically limits , like the geographical boundary of a government. The boundaries are used as a protection. Apart from geographic boundaries, they are present in theories , emotional , physical and mental states, etc . Every person has their boundaries and if one doesn't, then I say should have .                     I never really realised how important having boundaries were. Even after studying about people fighting for their boundaries, invading other regions to extend their boundaries, the wars , the uprisings , the struggle and everything in history all my school life , I didn't. We were taught history nd geography for the knowledge of the events, for its reasons, but never made to realise what was it's importance and applications in our lives now. They taught us the importance of the events and how our lives are now ...

Birthdays                  Ohh the day when you were born!! The first time those tiny little eyes opened up to see the world. Those small hands trying to hold onto the mother's fingers. Looking around and smiling at almost everyone.. That one beautiful day that you just don't very much remember or know about but your parents and a few relatives would.              That day you were born not just by chance but for a purpose that you might have found or will find out sooner or later. Every year this day reminds you of how long you have lived . You can look back to what you were a year ago and how much you have changed.              With each passing year your excitement for your own birthday generally gets reduced, though your family and a few close friends will always be hyped. They are the people trying to plan the day out to make it special and memorable for y...